Every year, thousands of young people travel to the United States from other countries and work as au pairs. The term au pair is French for “a relationship of equals.”
These 18-to-26-year-olds live with a host family for one to two years and provide up to 45 hours of child care a week in exchange for room, board and an annual stipend of about $10,000.
It seems like a win-win situation. The au pairs — usually women — get to travel and experience new cultures in safe settings. The families get live-in help with child care for far less than a nanny would cost.
The US State Department oversees the au pair program, and sets guidelines for its operation. But that federal agency leaves almost everything — from how much host families pay to how disputes are resolved — to au pair agencies. These are mostly for-profit organizations that pay the State Department for the privilege of running the program.
- They come here looking for opportunities, but can end up being caught in a system where they have little control.